'It’s not me, it’s you': 20 regrettable things people said during breakups

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    Human body - 20 Regrettable Things People Said During Breakups
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    Smile - r/AskReddit. Posted by u/MrDumpworth 5 days ago Dear Reddit, what is the worst thing YOU have said during a breakup?
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    Font - stingyboy 5 days ago Her: "is it someone else?" Me: "no, it's just you." ↑ 12.1k ↓ Reply Share
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    Font - lxkandel06 5 days ago Two months after our breakup, she asked me if I missed her. I told her I missed her parents more than I missed her 9.6k Reply Share
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    Font - nryporter25 5 days ago The worst is telling someone your don't love them anymore and genuinely seeing the heart break on their face. That's a gut wrenching thing to see when you know your words caused it. 9.2k ↓ Reply Share
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    Font - HospitalFluffy 5 days ago The breakup wasn't my choice, but when he tried a few weeks later to reconnect, I said 'Oh, I've actually been really happy since we've been apart. I don't think I could get back together now.' My sister called me savage for it, but I wasn't trying to be mean. It was the truth, and I just hadn't realized it up until the thought of taking him back filled me with dread. 6.3k Reply Share
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    Font - slytherinprolly. 5 days ago She was breaking up with me, and I told her, "You know you are right, and I agree, we aren't very compatible, and our relationship has been on the decline for sometime." Those were my true thoughts and feelings. I felt a sense of relief when she broke up with me because I realized it was the best move for the both of us. So why was this the worst thing to say? It ended up making her want to double down on the relationship. I was bombarded with non-stop texts, p
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    Font - Clearly_Disabled. 5 days ago edited 5 days ago We stared at our dinner plates. The movie had ended. We weakly smiled at each other. We had put each other through a LOT in 18 months. Her family had put us through even more. "This isn't really working is it?" I said. She simply said, "no, it isn't." I nodded. Thanked her for dinner, wished her luck, and left. Edit: Well I'll have to track down my ex of 16 years and tell her our final moment together is trending. Lol 2.0k Reply Share
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    Font - Flowerlamps 5 days ago "You are a 30 years old loser. Stop going to clubs to be the "dj" bc people actually make fun of you". Ahhh, stupid younger me. Would never say something like that. I was very hurt bc he was with someone else 1 month after our +3 years relationship. But we are good now, and I wish him all the very best in the world, he was a good guy, but we were simply not right for each other. I just wanted to damage his ego bc mine was damaged. 2.0k Reply Share
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    Font - UtahCyan 5 days ago edited 5 days ago The relationship was toxic and she was a gold digger. She said she needed about $10K a month to be able to continue dating me... I was very vulnerable at the time and she thought she could manipulate me. My response. "Jen, you're just not that pretty." Finished my scotch and walked out for good. Edit: Fixed your to you're. On the phone. 1.8k Reply Share
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    Font - BeefInGR 5 days ago Not a break up, but was seeing this girl off and on (because she wouldn't commit to actually dating). Got sick of the yo-yoing, fired up Facebook Dating and met my now girlfriend for drinks two days later. When the non-committal girl came back and I told her I was off the market I said "I'm just looking for someone who knows what commitment is". Must have hit a nerve because about six weeks later she was pregnant. ↑ 1.7k ↓ Reply Share
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    Font - DadsRGR8 5 days ago "Please don't leave, no one else will ever love me." said by me sobbing in the open doorway of the new apartment of my wife of barely one year. My self esteem was totally shattered. My life was over, there just was nothing left. She was kind but firm. She knew the relationship wasn't a good fit before I accepted that. We were very young, friends but not life partners. I didn't fully understand until I was a few years into my second marriage. We both went on to have suc
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    Font - Harness MeDesignsOUB 5 days ago. edited 5 days ago You need therapy if you actually want to be successful in relationships. You cant even commit to owning a cat. 1.3k Reply Share
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    Font - jacksparrow1 5 days ago I once ended a struggling relationship. A few months later I got an email from the person, and it was pages of everything I had ever done wrong in the relationship. I realized that this was why the relationship had been struggling. All these thing that had been bothering my partner, and they had bottled them all up inside instead of, say, talking to me about it. So, my entire response to this multiple page email with everything I had ever done wrong "Thank you, tha
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    Font - Schrodenger 5 days ago Her, " This isn't working out I think we should just be friends." Me, " Lets just never talk again is probably best" ↑ 1.1k ↓ Reply Share
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    Font - Working_Ad1759. 5 days ago It's not me, it's you. 1.1k Reply Share
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    Font - jennhoff03 5 days ago I actually regret things I DIDN'T say. I wish I'd told them how condescending he was. I know his ex told him that, and it really was the main reason I broke up with him. Maybe if he heard that from enough of his exes, he'd start to see a pattern. 873 Reply Share
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    Font - BigDaddy Fat Pants 5 days ago That's right cry for me, let me see those tears running down your *#!? @$ face. While, I was tossing her out the front door for cheating on me. 830 Reply Share
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    Font - Goo hannikanskywalker33. 5 days ago "You had your twenties, I haven't had mine" He was 14 years older than me and was an absolute blob of a person, being with him was holding me back from living. He wouldn't do anything for or with me unless it was his interest. Meeting him and dating him for 3.5 years is the biggest regret and disgust of my life. 773 Reply Share
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    Font - das745 5 days ago My ex wife was 44, she left me for another guy at work. It didn't work out and she wanted to come back home. She said she was willing to do anything if I would let her come home. I ask if she could be 26 cause that's how old my new girlfriend was 743 Reply Share
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    Font - RickDripps 5 days ago "I just don't enjoy the time we spend together." It was true and she was pretty selfish and entitled but not a villain or anything terrible. I just wasn't on guard when I should have been and she kept asking why... I still feel bad about it because I believe that was the moment she knew there was no way we were going to ever work out and she got off the phone a few seconds later before she started sobbing. Or so I assume. 538 Reply Share
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    Font - ResidentNeck4465. 5 days ago Not me but someone told my aunt they were breaking up with her because she was a dead beat going nowhere in life. Then she became a doctor out of spite lol 530 Reply Share

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